Redefining Trauma: Trauma is not always what you think

The word "trauma" often brings to mind dramatic, catastrophic events. And while those certainly are traumatic, this narrow view can make us afraid of the word itself, and more importantly, prevent us from understanding its pervasive impact.

The truth is, trauma isn't just about what happened TO us; it's about what happened inside us as a result.

For many, trauma isn't a single, loud bang, but the silent, accumulated echoes of experiences like:

• A consistent lack of being seen or heard in formative years.

• Emotional neglect, where core needs for connection and validation went unmet.

• Ongoing overwhelm where our nervous system consistently said "too much," and we had no safe space or resources to process it.

These "small-t" traumas, often subtle and relational, can hardwire our nervous systems just as powerfully as a "big-T" event.

What this means for us today is profound. Many highly capable individuals carry these unresolved experiences into adulthood, unknowingly adopting coping mechanisms that once served them but now lead to chronic stress, anxiety, burnout, or a deep sense of unfulfillment. They might push harder, isolate more, or struggle with connection, not realizing these are echoes from their past.

Recognizing trauma in its broader sense is not about finding fault, but about finding freedom. It's about understanding that our body's intelligent protective responses, while vital then, might be holding us back now. It opens the door to immense compassion for ourselves and a more sustainable path to well-being.

Let's challenge the stigma and foster a deeper understanding. Healing begins when we acknowledge the full story our bodies hold.

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